Tag: humility

Daily Frameworks for 01 September 2026

Fidál, 13 Asmá’ (Names), 183 B.E.

Quotes for Reflection

Every one of the friends should highly praise the other and each should regard himself as evanescent and as naught in the presence of others. All matters should be consulted upon in the meeting and whatever is the majority vote should be carried out. I swear by the one true God, it is better that all should agree on a wrong decision, than for one right vote to be singled out, inasmuch as single votes can be sources of dissension, which lead to ruin. Whereas, if in one case they take a wrong decision, in a hundred other cases they will adopt right decisions, and concord and unity are preserved. This will offset any deficiency, and will eventually lead to the righting of the wrong. — ‘Abdu’l-Bahá [1]

Question for Consideration

What personal qualities contribute to productive Bahá’í consultation? [2] [3]

Perplexity Computer Response:

Productive Bahá’í consultation depends less on debate skill than on spiritual and moral qualities that make a group genuinely able to discover truth together. The central posture is to offer one’s view frankly, but hold it lightly—seeking the best understanding and the unity of the group rather than personal victory. [4]

Core qualities

‘Abdu’l‑Bahá identifies these as the “prime requisites” for people who consult:

  • Purity of motive: entering the discussion to serve the common good, not to advance status, defend a faction, or prevail personally.
  • Radiance of spirit: bringing encouragement, hope, warmth, and goodwill rather than cynicism, hostility, or gloom.
  • Detachment: separating oneself from one’s own idea, preferences, fears, and ego. A proposal can be expressed fully, then released for the group to examine.
  • Spiritual orientation: in Bahá’í terms, turning toward God and being motivated by devotion to divine principles rather than self-interest.
  • Humility and lowliness: recognizing that no one person possesses the whole truth; being ready to learn from every participant.
  • Patience and long-suffering: enduring difficulty, disagreement, delay, and imperfect outcomes without resentment or withdrawal.
  • A spirit of service: treating consultation as a responsibility to contribute to the welfare of the community, family, institution, or project—not as an arena for self-expression alone. [4]

How those qualities appear in practice

These inner dispositions show up as concrete habits:

  • Courtesy and dignity: speaking respectfully even when one strongly disagrees.
  • Care and moderation: expressing views clearly and candidly, but without exaggeration, pressure, sarcasm, or personal attack.
  • Truth-seeking: treating differing views as resources for investigation rather than threats to be defeated.
  • Frankness with calmness: contributing one’s actual judgment instead of remaining silent merely to avoid discomfort, while avoiding passion and rancor.
  • Deep listening: giving others’ ideas a fair hearing; not interrupting, belittling, or taking criticism of an idea as criticism of oneself.
  • Freedom from stubbornness: refusing to cling to a position once better insight emerges. The guidance explicitly warns that persistence in one’s own view can create discord and conceal truth.
  • Restraint and self-discipline: speaking to the point, avoiding impulsive comments, and not turning remarks toward individuals [4] [5]

The distinctive shift: idea over ownership

A particularly important quality is detachment from one’s own proposal. In a productive consultative setting, a person may say, “Here is a possible way to understand the problem,” rather than “This is my position and I must win.”

That shift allows the idea to become the group’s shared object of inquiry. Others can improve it, challenge it, combine it with another insight, or set it aside without diminishing the person who originally offered it. This is why humility, courage, and love work together: humility permits learning; courage permits honest speech; love protects unity amid difference. [6]

After a decision

Consultation also calls for maturity after the group reaches a decision. Participants are asked to support the result rather than continue campaigning for their preferred option. In the cited guidance, when differences remain, a majority decision is to be followed by all—preserving unity and enabling the group to learn from action rather than becoming paralyzed by continuing contention. [5]

A concise checklist

Before joining a consultation, someone might ask:

  • Am I here to serve the truth and the group, or to prove that I am right?
  • Can I state my real view clearly and courteously?
  • Can I listen without defensiveness or offense?
  • Can I revise or release my opinion if the evidence or collective insight points elsewhere?
  • Can I support the group’s decision sincerely, including when it was not my preference?

Those questions capture the personal discipline that turns consultation from ordinary argument into a collaborative search for wiser action.

Footnotes

[1] Research Department of the Universal House of Justice. CONSULTATION: A COMPILATION. February 1978, Revised November 1990. Bahá’í Reference Library. https://www.bahai.org/r/435036250

[2] Perplexity Computer. “Personal qualities that contribute to effective Bahá’í consultation.” Edited by Steve Bosserman. August 31, 2026. https://www.perplexity.ai/search/450d8a96-43ac-48ca-8bd3-0c6c7d9fe953

[3] Transformative Leadership Education Staff. “Unite, Decide, Thrive: Using Consultation to Improve Decisions” (Free Online Course). Transformative Leadership Education. https://tinyurl.com/courseconsultation

[4] The Bahá’í Faith Staff. “Consultation Quotes.” Bahá’í International Community. https://www.bahai.org/beliefs/universal-peace/articles-resources/consultation-quotes

[5] National Teaching Committee-Youth and Student Activities Staff. “A New World Order: Deepening Portfolio #1.” Bahá’í Publishing Trust, 1970. https://bahai.works/index.php?title=File:A_New_World_Order.pdf&page=37

[6] Bahai9 Wiki Contributors. “Consultation.” Bahai9. https://bahai9.com/wiki/Consultation

Be the Voice of…

Therefore, all souls should consider it incumbent upon them to investigate reality. Reality is one; and when found, it will unify all mankind. Reality is the love of God. Reality is the knowledge of God. Reality is justice. Reality is the oneness or solidarity of mankind. Reality is international peace. Reality is the knowledge of verities. Reality unifies humanity. — ‘Abdu’l-Bahá The Promulgation of Universal Peace | Bahá’í Reference Library.

239 Days in America, Day 106: July 25, 1912 | Boston

What Can the Hypocrite Know? 1

WHILE IN AMERICA ‘ABDU’L-BAHÁ spoke to a wide variety of public audiences, including peace societies, church congregations, women’s groups, and social justice organizations. But he also spoke directly to groups of Bahá’ís — followers of his father’s religion — and often when he did so, his tone changed.

“I am expecting results from this visit,” he told them on July 25, 1912, at the Hotel Victoria in Boston, “and hope that my coming may not be fruitless. The results I expect are these: that the individual soul shall be released from self and desire and freed from the bondage of satanic suggestions.” By “satanic” he meant “the natural inclinations of the lower nature,” and not some independent evil spirit.

“Man possesses two kinds of susceptibilities,” ‘Abdu’l-Bahá said, “the natural emotions, which are like dust upon the mirror, and spiritual susceptibilities, which are merciful and heavenly characteristics.” It was an analogy he had used many times before — the soul as a mirror reflecting divine qualities and virtues, and the constant struggle to keep it pure.

New Hampshire 2

The next day, ‘Abdu’l-Bahá spoke with more visitors until the late afternoon when He departed for Dublin, where He arrived at 7:00 P.M. and took up residence at one of Mrs Arthur J. [Agnes] Parsons’ two homes. Until August 16 He remained in Dublin, surrounded by green hills, flowering gardens, and flowing streams.

Thursday, July 25, 1912 3

As ‘Abdu’l-Bahá had said He intended to leave Boston for Dublin, the friends and seekers gathered at the hotel. He encouraged them to lead fruitful lives and to overcome self and desire.

Consenting to a request of Mr Kinney, the Master paid a visit to Green Acre. When He got there, two Arab seekers fell at His feet crying, ’O Thou the Prophet of God’. He lifted them with His own hand, saying: ‘I am ‘Abdu’l-Bahá [the Servant of Bahá].’

At 4:00 p.m. in the afternoon ‘Abdu’l-Bahá left Boston and by 7:00 p.m. He was gracing the gardens of Dublin. The Master took up residence in one of the two houses Mrs Parsons had especially prepared for Him, which was furnished with every comfort; however, the Master said that we must bear our own expenses. Mrs Parsons had hoped that the arrival of the Master would remain private so that He might rest a little. When ‘Abdu’l-Bahá learned of this He said:

We have come for work and service and not for leisure. We must render service to the Threshold of the Blessed Beauty and must make such servitude the cause of our solace and the joy of our souls. As this place is a summer resort and many prominent people are present, therefore, unless they should themselves ask, the friends should not teach openly. They must deal with them with perfect dignity and honor.

Continuing, He said:

Consider where we came from and where we are now in Dublin here in America. We must offer thanks for the assistance and protection of the Abhá Beauty that we may breathe a breath in the path of servitude.

He then gave an account of the life of Hájí Abu’l-Qásim, an indigo merchant, and the restoration of his grave. ‘He was’, He said, ‘one of the servants of the Blessed Beauty. My first thought on my arrival in Egypt was to repair his tomb.’ Similarly, He spoke of the good intentions and sincerity of Áqá Muhammad Taqí Isfahání, who is residing in Egypt. In the evening he enjoyed His dinner and ate in good health and happiness.

Talk at Hotel Victoria, Boston, Massachusetts 4

I am very happy to greet you here today. This is the second time the breeze of God has wafted over Boston. I am expecting results from this visit and hope that my coming may not be fruitless. The results I expect are these: that the individual soul shall be released from self and desire and freed from the bondage of satanic suggestions. May the mirrors of hearts be cleansed from dust in order that the Sun of Truth may be reflected therein.

Man possesses two kinds of susceptibilities: the natural emotions, which are like dust upon the mirror, and spiritual susceptibilities, which are merciful and heavenly characteristics.

There is a power which purifies the mirror from dust and transforms its reflection into intense brilliancy and radiance so that spiritual susceptibilities may chasten the hearts and heavenly bestowals sanctify them. What is the dust which obscures the mirror? It is attachment to the world, avarice, envy, love of luxury and comfort, haughtiness and self-desire; this is the dust which prevents reflection of the rays of the Sun of Reality in the mirror. The natural emotions are blameworthy and are like rust which deprives the heart of the bounties of God. But sincerity, justice, humility, severance, and love for the believers of God will purify the mirror and make it radiant with reflected rays from the Sun of Truth.

It is my hope that you may consider this matter, that you may search out your own imperfections and not think of the imperfections of anybody else. Strive with all your power to be free from imperfections. Heedless souls are always seeking faults in others. What can the hypocrite know of others’ faults when he is blind to his own? This is the meaning of the words in the Seven Valleys. It is a guide for human conduct. As long as a man does not find his own faults, he can never become perfect. Nothing is more fruitful for man than the knowledge of his own shortcomings. The Blessed Perfection says, “I wonder at the man who does not find his own imperfections.”

’Abdu’l-Bahá in America, 1912-2012: Calling America to It’s Spiritual Destiny

“We have come for work and service and not for leisure.”

Celebrating the Centenary: The Master in America

Curated by Anne Perry

July 25, 1912

  1. Sockett, Robert. “What Can the Hypocrite Know?” 239 Days in America, 25 July 2012, https://239days.com/2012/07/25/what-can-the-hypocrite-know/. ↩
  2. Ward, Allan L. 239 Days: ʻAbdu’l-Bahá’s Journey in America. Wilmette, Ill: Bahá’í Publishing Trust, 1979, 117. ↩
  3. ’Abdu’l-Bahá, and Mirza Mahmud-i-Zarqani. Mahmúd’s Diary: The Diary of Mírzá Mahmúd-i-Zarqání Chronicling ’Abdu’l-Bahá’s Journey to America. Edited by Shirley Macias. Translated by Mohi Sobhani. Oxford: George Ronald, 1998. https://bahai-library.com/zarqani_mahmuds_diary&chapter=5#section123 ↩
  4. ʻAbduʼl-Bahá. The Promulgation of Universal Peace: Talks Delivered by ʻAbduʼl-Bahá during His Visit to the United States and Canada in 1912. Edited by Howard MacNutt. 2nd ed. Wilmette, Ill: Baháʼí Publishing Trust, 1982, 244. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/abdul-baha/promulgation-universal-peace/17#026795839 ↩