Istijlál, 16 Mulk (Dominion), 180 B.E.

Arising to Serve

Quotes for Reflection:

It is my hope that you may consider this matter, that you may search out your own imperfections and not think of the imperfections of anybody else. Strive with all your power to be free from imperfections. Heedless souls are always seeking faults in others. What can the hypocrite know of others’ faults when he is blind to his own? This is the meaning of the words in the Seven Valleys. It is a guide for human conduct. As long as a man does not find his own faults, he can never become perfect. Nothing is more fruitful for man than the knowledge of his own shortcomings. The Blessed Perfection says, “I wonder at the man who does not find his own imperfections.” — ‘Abdu’l-Bahá ¹

In order to achieve this cordial unity one of the first essentials insisted on by Bahá’u’lláh and ‘Abdu’l‑Bahá is that we resist the natural tendency to let our attention dwell on the faults and failings of others rather than on our own. Each of us is responsible for one life only, and that is our own. Each of us is immeasurably far from being “perfect as our heavenly father is perfect” and the task of perfecting our own life and character is one that requires all our attention, our will-power and energy. If we allow our attention and energy to be taken up in efforts to keep others right and remedy their faults, we are wasting precious time. We are like ploughmen each of whom has his team to manage and his plough to direct, and in order to keep his furrow straight he must keep his eye on his goal and concentrate on his own task. If he looks to this side and that to see how Tom and Harry are getting on and to criticize their ploughing, then his own furrow will assuredly become crooked. — Shoghi Effendi ²

Question for Consideration:

Why do we criticize some people when they make a mistake, but not others when they do the exact same thing? ³

Google Gemini Response:

The quotes highlight several reasons why we might criticize some people when they make a mistake but not others:

• Selective attention and confirmation bias: We tend to focus on and remember the mistakes of others more than our own. This is partly due to our natural tendency to be more critical of others than ourselves and partly because negative information tends to be more memorable than positive information. Additionally, we may have a “confirmation bias,” where we seek and interpret information to confirm our beliefs about ourselves and others. So, if we already have a negative perception of someone, we’re more likely to notice and criticize their mistakes.
• Different relationships and expectations: We generally have closer and more forgiving relationships with people we care about and expect more from those we have higher expectations of. Therefore, we might be more critical of a colleague’s mistake than a similar error made by a close friend.
• In-group vs. out-group bias: We tend to be more forgiving and understanding of mistakes made by people we consider part of our group (e.g., family, friends, colleagues) compared to those we perceive as outsiders. This is called “in-group vs. out-group bias.”
• Context and severity: The context and seriousness of the mistake also influence our response. We may be more critical of someone who makes a careless mistake with severe consequences than someone who makes an honest mistake with minimal impact.
• Personal motivations and agendas: Sometimes, criticizing others can be driven by personal motivations like jealousy, anger, or a desire to feel superior. We might use others’ mistakes to boost our self-esteem or deflect attention from our flaws.
  

It’s crucial to remember that judging others is ultimately unproductive and harmful. It creates division and hinders personal growth for ourselves and those we criticize. As the quotes suggest, focusing on self-improvement and cultivating understanding and compassion is a much more constructive and beneficial approach.

Here are some additional points to consider:

• We all make mistakes, and being kind to ourselves and others is essential.
• Instead of criticizing, try offering constructive feedback respectfully and helpfully.
• Focus on understanding why someone made a mistake and how they can learn from it.
• Practice empathy and compassion, even towards those who make mistakes.
  

By shifting our focus from criticizing others to self-improvement and understanding, we can create a more positive and supportive environment for everyone.

Microsoft Copilot Response:

The wisdom shared by ‘Abdu’l-Bahá and Shoghi Effendi highlights a fundamental aspect of human behavior: our tendency to focus on the faults of others while often overlooking our imperfections. Let’s explore this phenomenon:

Selective Perception and Bias:

• When someone we perceive as different from us makes a mistake, we may be quicker to criticize. Our biases and preconceptions influence how we view others.
• We tend to notice and remember negative actions more readily than positive ones, especially when they confirm our existing beliefs.
  

Self-Image and Ego:

• Our self-image plays a significant role. We want to see ourselves as competent, moral, and better than others.
• Acknowledging our own mistakes threatens our ego. Therefore, we may avoid self-reflection and project our shortcomings onto others.
  

Empathy Gap:

• We often lack empathy for people outside our immediate circle. When someone we care about makes a mistake, we may be more forgiving.
• Strangers or those we perceive as adversaries receive less compassion.
  

Attribution Bias:

• When we make an error, we attribute it to external factors (e.g., circumstances, stress). But when others err, we attribute it to their character flaws.
• This bias leads us to judge others more harshly.
  

Social Norms and Expectations:

• Society sets norms and expectations. When someone deviates, we notice.
• We may also hold people in positions of authority or influence to higher standards.
  

Cognitive Dissonance:

• Seeing someone doing the same thing we’ve done (and criticized) creates cognitive dissonance.
• To reduce discomfort, we justify our actions while condemning theirs.
  

Group Dynamics:

• In group settings, we conform to social norms. If others criticize someone, we may join in to fit in.
• Conversely, defending someone who’s criticized can be socially risky.
  

In summary, our tendency to criticize others while excusing ourselves arises from a complex interplay of psychology, social dynamics, and self-preservation. Becoming aware of this bias allows us to practice greater empathy, self-reflection, and understanding. 🌟

1. ’Abdu’l-Bahá. The Promulgation of Universal Peace: Talks Delivered by ʻAbduʼl-Bahá during His Visit to the United States and Canada in 1912. Edited by Howard MacNutt. 2nd ed. Wilmette, Ill: Baháʼí Publishing Trust, 1982, 244. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/abdul-baha/promulgation-universal-peace/17#700778835. ↩
2. Bahá’u’lláh, ’Abdu’l-Bahá, and Shoghi Effendi. “Compilation for the 2018 Counsellors’ Conference.” Bahá’í Reference Library, May 2018.
   https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/compilations/give-me-thy-grace-serve-thy-loved-ones/4#725749714. ↩
3. Ruhi Institute. Arising to Serve. 2.1.1.PE September 2020. Vol. Book 2. 6 vols. Embarking on a Path of Service. Cali, Columbia: Ruhi Foundation, 2020, 54. https://www.ruhi.org/en/walking-a-path-of-service/#AS. ↩

’Idál, 15 Mulk (Dominion), 180 B.E.

Arising to Serve

Quote for Reflection:

It is with such thoughts in mind that Bahá’ís enter into collaboration, as their resources permit, with an increasing number of movements, organizations, groups and individuals, establishing partnerships that strive to transform society and further the cause of unity, promote human welfare, and contribute to world solidarity. Indeed, the standard set by passages such as the above inspires the Bahá’í community to become actively engaged in as many aspects of contemporary life as feasible. In choosing areas of collaboration, Bahá’ís are to bear in mind the principle, enshrined in their teachings, that means should be consistent with ends; noble goals cannot be achieved through unworthy means. Specifically, it is not possible to build enduring unity through endeavours that require contention or assume that an inherent conflict of interests underlies all human interactions, however subtly. It should be noted here that, despite the limitations imposed by adherence to this principle, the community has not experienced a shortage of opportunities for collaboration; so many people in the world today are working intensely towards one or another aim which Bahá’ís share. In this respect, they also take care not to overstep certain bounds with their colleagues and associates. They are not to regard any joint undertaking as an occasion to impose religious convictions. Self-righteousness and other unfortunate manifestations of religious zeal are to be utterly avoided. Bahá’ís do, however, readily offer to their collaborators the lessons they have learned through their own experience, just as they are happy to incorporate into their community-building efforts insights gained through such association. — Universal House of Justice ¹

Question for Consideration:

Which of the following contribute to unity?
Looking at the shortcomings of others.
Overlooking the faults of others.
Commenting on the shortcomings of another person to a friend.
Exaggerating or changing a story to make another person look bad.
Thinking of the faults of others. ²

Google Gemini Response:

Out of the options listed, only overlooking the faults of others contributes to unity according to the passage from the Universal House of Justice. Here’s why:

• Looking at the shortcomings of others: This focuses on negativity and can lead to judgment and criticism, hindering unity.
• Commenting on the shortcomings of another person to a friend: This further perpetuates gossip and negativity, damaging trust and fostering division.
• Exaggerating or changing a story to make another person look bad: This is intentionally manipulative and destructive, directly violating the principle of “noble goals cannot be achieved through unworthy means.”
• Thinking of the faults of others: While not actively spreading negativity, dwelling on faults doesn’t build positive connections or contribute to unity.
  

Overlooking the faults of others, as encouraged in the passage, emphasizes forgiveness, understanding, and a willingness to focus on the positive aspects of relationships. This doesn’t mean ignoring harmful behavior, but rather prioritizing respectful communication and seeking solutions while maintaining unity and avoiding unnecessary negativity.

The Bahá’í community encourages collaboration with diverse groups while staying true to their principles. They offer their own experiences and learn from others, prioritizing unity and avoiding religious imposition or self-righteousness. This approach emphasizes the importance of positive interactions and contributions, aligning with overlooking faults and fostering unity.

Remember, this is one interpretation of the passage, and approaches to promoting unity within the Bahá’í community can vary. Ultimately, the goal is to cultivate love, understanding, and collaboration while maintaining fidelity to their core principles.

Microsoft Copilot Response:

The passage you’ve shared highlights the Bahá’í community’s commitment to collaboration, unity, and noble goals. Let’s examine how the listed actions contribute to unity:

1. Looking at the shortcomings of others: This action tends to create division and negativity. Focusing on faults can hinder unity by emphasizing differences rather than common ground.
   
2. Overlooking the faults of others: This approach promotes understanding, empathy, and forgiveness. By recognizing imperfections but choosing not to dwell on them, individuals can foster unity and harmony.
   
3. Commenting on the shortcomings of another person to a friend: Such comments can perpetuate gossip and negativity. They may harm relationships and undermine trust, ultimately working against unity.
   
4. Exaggerating or changing a story to make another person look bad: Fabricating stories or intentionally distorting facts harms trust and creates discord. Unity relies on honesty and transparency.
   
5. Thinking of the faults of others: While self-reflection is essential, dwelling excessively on others’ faults can lead to judgment and division. A focus on shared goals and positive qualities contributes more effectively to unity.
   

In summary, actions that promote understanding, forgiveness, and positive collaboration contribute to unity, while negativity, gossip, and dishonesty hinder it. The Bahá’í teachings emphasize noble means to achieve noble ends, fostering a spirit of unity and cooperation among people.

1. Universal House of Justice. “2 March 2013 – To the Bahá’ís of Iran.” Bahá’í Reference Library, March 2, 2013. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/the-universal-house-of-justice/messages/20130302_001/1#551078499. ↩
2. Ruhi Institute. Arising to Serve. 2.1.1.PE September 2020. Vol. Book 2. 6 vols. Embarking on a Path of Service. Cali, Columbia: Ruhi Foundation, 2020, 53. https://www.ruhi.org/en/walking-a-path-of-service/#AS. ↩

Fidál, 14 Mulk (Dominion), 180 B.E.

Arising to Serve

Quote for Reflection:

By adhering to the Divine teachings and following the guidance of the Centre of the Faith, you have succeeded in achieving unity of thought on issues concerning service to the Cause and the advancement of spiritual civilization. May you recognize the value of this accomplishment and not underestimate its significance. You are also mindful of one essential, practical point, namely: that believers differ in their capacity, aptitude and approach, in their understanding, wisdom and spiritual discipline, in their degree of commitment and willingness to sacrifice, as well as in their personal preferences and priorities. As members of a diverse but united community, then, you must remain, one and all, as tightly bound as threads in the cord of the Covenant to which all must cling. Be at all times a source of encouragement and support to one another, and together seek after new avenues of service. In association with friends, neighbours and acquaintances, may you dispel the darkness of iniquity and tyranny with the light of love and fidelity. Pay no heed to rumours. Rather may you draw sustenance from the power of unity and rely upon the penetrating influence of “holy words and pure and goodly deeds” ¹ and “a virtuous life and a goodly behaviour” ² —this, that you may become the cause of love, unity and harmony within your community and among your fellow citizens. Be confident that every step taken in the path of God with sincerity will attract heavenly confirmations, for He “imparteth to the drop the power of the sea, and turneth the atom into a very sun.” ³ — Universal House of Justice ⁴

Question for Consideration:

What types of spiritual discipline help one contribute towards unity in one’s community? ⁵

Google Gemini Response:

The message from the Universal House of Justice highlights several aspects of spiritual discipline that contribute to unity within a community:

Recognizing the Value of Unity:

• Understanding the significance of achieving unity in thought and action for serving the Cause and advancing spiritual civilization.
• Appreciating the diverse contributions individuals bring to the community.
  

Embracing Diversity with Oneness:

• Accepting and celebrating differing capacities, aptitudes, approaches, and perspectives within the community.
• Remaining tightly bound together despite these differences, like threads in the cord of the Covenant.
  

Mutual Support and Encouragement:

• Offering encouragement and support to one another to strengthen individual and collective efforts.
• Seeking new avenues of service together through collaboration and shared vision.
  

Spreading Light through Love and Fidelity:

• Dispelling negativity and promoting goodness through love and loyalty to the ideals of the Faith.
• Ignoring rumors and focusing on the positive influence of “holy words,” good deeds, and virtuous behavior.
  

Building Harmony through Action:

• Becoming active agents of love, unity, and harmony within the community and beyond.
• Taking sincere steps in the path of God, knowing that even small actions can have significant positive effects.
  

Key Takeaways:

The message emphasizes that unity arises not from uniformity but from respecting and valuing diversity while aligning around shared goals and principles. Spiritual disciplines like humility, understanding, open-mindedness, active listening, collaboration, and service are crucial for achieving this.

Additional Points:

• Prayer and meditation: Seeking spiritual guidance and strength through these practices can help cultivate the qualities needed for unity.
• Studying Sacred Texts: Deepening understanding of the Bahá’í teachings provides a shared foundation for unity.
• Humility and Self-reflection: Recognizing and managing personal biases and limitations contributes to genuine connection.
• Active Participation: Engaging in community activities and offering one’s talents and abilities strengthens the collective.
  

Ultimately, building unity is an ongoing process requiring continuous effort and commitment from all community members. By practicing these spiritual disciplines and striving for understanding and cooperation, you can contribute to a more loving, harmonious, and effective community dedicated to serving humanity.

Remember, interpretations of this message and approaches to spiritual practice can vary within the Bahá’í community. The primary goal is to live by the ideals of love, unity, and service, contributing to a brighter future for all.

1. “O CHILDREN OF ADAM! Holy words and pure and goodly deeds ascend unto the heaven of celestial glory. Strive that your deeds may be cleansed from the dust of self and hypocrisy and find favor at the court of glory; for ere long the assayers of mankind shall, in the holy presence of the Adored One, accept naught but absolute virtue and deeds of stainless purity. This is the daystar of wisdom and of divine mystery that hath shone above the horizon of the divine will. Blessed are they that turn thereunto.”
   Bahá’u’lláh. The Hidden Words. Translated by Shoghi Effendi. Bahá’í Reference Library. Accessed February 19, 2024. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/bahaullah/hidden-words/3#810818726. ↩
2. “In one of the Tablets these words have been revealed: O people of God! Do not busy yourselves in your own concerns; let your thoughts be fixed upon that which will rehabilitate the fortunes of mankind and sanctify the hearts and souls of men. This can best be achieved through pure and holy deeds, through a virtuous life and a goodly behavior. Valiant acts will ensure the triumph of this Cause, and a saintly character will reinforce its power. Cleave unto righteousness, O people of Bahá! This, verily, is the commandment which this wronged One hath given unto you, and the first choice of His unrestrained Will for every one of you.”
   Bahá’u’lláh. Gleanings from the Writings of Bahá’u’lláh. Translated by Shoghi Effendi. Bahá’í Reference Library. Accessed February 19, 2024. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/bahaullah/gleanings-writings-bahaullah/3#998953432. ↩
3. “And if, confirmed by the Creator, the lover escapeth the claws of the eagle of love, he will enter the Realm of Knowledge and come out of doubt into certitude, and turn from the darkness of wayward desire to the guiding light of the fear of God. His inner eye will open and he will privily converse with his Beloved; he will unlock the gates of truth and supplication and shut the doors of idle fancy. He in this realm is content with the divine decree, and seeth war as peace, and in death findeth the meaning of everlasting life. With both inward and outward eyes he witnesseth the mysteries of resurrection in the realms of creation and in the souls of men, and with a spiritual heart apprehendeth the wisdom of God in His endless manifestations. In the sea he findeth a drop, in a drop he beholdeth the secrets of the sea.
   ““Split the atom’s heart, and lo!
   ““Within it thou wilt find a sun.”” (Hátif-i-Iṣfahání, d.1783)
   Bahá’u’lláh. The Call of the Divine Beloved: Selected Mystical Works of Bahá’ú’lláh.” Bahá’í Reference Library. Accessed February 19, 2024. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/bahaullah/call-divine-beloved/4#443944657. ↩
4. Universal House of Justice. “31 October 2008 – To the Believers in the Cradle of the Faith.” Bahá’í Reference Library, October 31, 2008. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/the-universal-house-of-justice/messages/20081031_001/1#810176565 ↩
5. Ruhi Institute. Arising to Serve. 2.1.1.PE September 2020. Vol. Book 2. 6 vols. Embarking on a Path of Service. Cali, Columbia: Ruhi Foundation, 2020, 53. https://www.ruhi.org/en/walking-a-path-of-service/#AS. ↩

Kamál, 13 Mulk (Dominion), 180 B.E.

Arising to Serve

Quote for Reflection:

IT is Our wish and desire that every one of you may become a source of all goodness unto men, and an example of uprightness to mankind. Beware lest ye prefer yourselves above your neighbors. Fix your gaze upon Him Who is the Temple of God amongst men. He, in truth, hath offered up His life as a ransom for the redemption of the world. He, verily, is the All-Bountiful, the Gracious, the Most High. If any differences arise amongst you, behold Me standing before your face, and overlook the faults of one another for My name’s sake and as a token of your love for My manifest and resplendent Cause. We love to see you at all times consorting in amity and concord within the paradise of My good-pleasure, and to inhale from your acts the fragrance of friendliness and unity, of loving-kindness and fellowship. Thus counseleth you the All-Knowing, the Faithful. We shall always be with you; if We inhale the perfume of your fellowship, Our heart will assuredly rejoice, for naught else can satisfy Us. To this beareth witness every man of true understanding. — Bahá’u’lláh ¹

Question for Consideration:

What should you do when you see differences arising between yourself and others in the community? ²

Google Gemini Response:

In the passage you shared, Bahá’u’lláh offers powerful guidance for navigating differences within the community:

• Remember the Ideal: First, recall the wish for you to be “a source of all goodness” and “an example of uprightness.” This means prioritizing love, humility, and unity even when challenged.
• Seek Inspiration: Focus on the sacrifices of Bahá’u’lláh, who offered His life for humanity. This reminds you to put the community’s needs above personal pride or anger.
• Overlook Faults: When differences arise, imagine Bahá’u’lláh present and asking you to “overlook the faults of one another.” Choose forgiveness and understanding over resentment and blame.
• Seek Harmony: Aim for “amity and concord within the paradise of My good-pleasure.” Picture a peaceful, fragrant garden of unity and loving-kindness, and contribute to that atmosphere.
• Practice Fellowship: Remember the joy Bahá’u’lláh finds in the “perfume of your fellowship.” Choose connection and understanding over the satisfaction of proving yourself right or indulging in anger.
• Actively Engage: Don’t passively observe differences. Approach them with an open mind and a genuine desire for resolution.
  

Here are some additional tips when differences arise:

• Pause and reflect: Take a moment to calm down before reacting. What emotions are driving your response?
• Consider the other person’s perspective: Try to understand their viewpoint and the potential reasons behind their actions.
• Engage in respectful communication: Listen actively, express your feelings calmly, and avoid personal attacks.
• Seek common ground: Look for areas of agreement, even if minor. Build upon those to find solutions acceptable to both parties.
• Be willing to compromise: Show flexibility and a willingness to meet halfway if appropriate.
• Focus on solutions: Aim for outcomes that benefit both parties and the community.
• Involve others if needed: If the situation escalates, seek guidance from trusted individuals within the community.
  

Remember, resolving differences is a collaborative process. By approaching it with love, understanding, and a commitment to finding solutions that honor everyone’s perspectives, you can contribute to a more harmonious and united community.

It’s important to note that interpretations of this passage and approaches to resolving differences can vary within the Bahá’í community. Ultimately, the goal is to foster a community that reflects the ideals of love, unity, and service, where differences are seen as opportunities for growth and learning.

Microsoft Copilot Response:

When differences arise between yourself and others in the community, embrace understanding, patience, and compassion. Remember the counsel of Bahá’u’lláh: “If any differences arise amongst you, behold Me standing before your face, and overlook the faults of one another for My name’s sake and as a token of your love for My manifest and resplendent Cause.”

Here are some steps to consider:

• Active Listening: Take time to listen to others’ perspectives without judgment. Understand their point of view and motivations.
• Seek Common Ground: Focus on shared values and goals. Find common ground that unites you rather than emphasizing differences.
• Empathy: Put yourself in their shoes. Understand their feelings and experiences. Compassion fosters unity.
• Open Dialogue: Engage in respectful conversations. Express your thoughts and feelings while being open to theirs.
• Forgiveness: Forgive mistakes and shortcomings. Holding grudges only perpetuates discord.
• Collaboration: Work together to find solutions. Unity is better than division.
  

Remember that unity doesn’t mean uniformity. Differences can enrich our communities when approached with love and understanding. 🌟

1. Bahá’u’lláh. Gleanings from the Writings of Bahá’u’lláh. Translated by Shoghi Effendi. Bahá’í Reference Library. Accessed February 18, 2024. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/bahaullah/gleanings-writings-bahaullah/7#576176748. ↩
2. Ruhi Institute. Arising to Serve. 2.1.1.PE September 2020. Vol. Book 2. 6 vols. Embarking on a Path of Service. Cali, Columbia: Ruhi Foundation, 2020, 53. https://www.ruhi.org/en/walking-a-path-of-service/#AS. ↩

Jamál, 12 Mulk (Dominion), 180 B.E.

Arising to Serve

Quotes for Reflection:

Whensoever holy souls, drawing on the powers of heaven, shall arise with such qualities of the spirit, and march in unison, rank on rank, every one of those souls will be even as one thousand, and the surging waves of that mighty ocean will be even as the battalions of the Concourse on high. What a blessing that will be—when all shall come together, even as once separate torrents, rivers and streams, running brooks and single drops, when collected together in one place will form a mighty sea. And to such a degree will the inherent unity of all prevail, that the traditions, rules, customs and distinctions in the fanciful life of these populations will be effaced and vanish away like isolated drops, once the great sea of oneness doth leap and surge and roll. — ‘Abdu’l-Bahá ¹

The great and fundamental teachings of Bahá’u’lláh are the oneness of God and unity of mankind. This is the bond of union among Bahá’ís all over the world. They become united among themselves, then unite others. It is impossible to unite unless united. Christ said, “Ye are the salt of the earth; but if the salt has lost his savor, wherewith shall it be salted?” This proves there were dissensions and lack of unity among His followers. Hence His admonition to unity of action.
Now must we, likewise, bind ourselves together in the utmost unity, be kind and loving to each other, sacrificing all our possessions, our honor, yea, even our lives for each other. Then will it be proved that we have acted according to the teachings of God, that we have been real believers in the oneness of God and unity of mankind. — ‘Abdu’l-Bahá ²

Question for Consideration:

In light of the quotes from ‘Abdu’l-Bahá above, what are the characteristics and consequences of unity of action? ³

Google Gemini Response:

In the passages you shared, ‘Abdu’l-Bahá beautifully describes the transformative power of unity and the characteristics and consequences of unity in action. Here are some key takeaways:

Characteristics:

• Shared spiritual qualities: Individuals are motivated by spiritual principles, love, and a desire to serve God and humanity.
• Collective action: Diverse individuals come together, united in purpose and action, working harmoniously towards a common goal.
• Transcending differences: Traditions, customs, and personal agendas fade away as individuals focus on the shared goal and oneness of humanity.
• Amplifying impact: Individuals gain strength and become more effective when united, their actions having far-reaching consequences.
• Sacrifice and commitment: True unity requires sacrifice of personal desires and a willingness to serve the greater good.
  

Consequences:

• Harmony and peace: Unity fosters a sense of belonging, understanding, and cooperation, reducing conflict and promoting peace.
• Transformation of society: Collective action based on love and service can create positive change and contribute to a more just and equitable world.
• Spiritual growth: Working together for a common purpose strengthens individuals’ faith and connection to God.
• Fulfillment of purpose: By embodying unity, individuals fulfill Bahá’u’lláh’s teachings and advance humanity’s unity.
• Attraction of others: The positive example of a united community inspires and attracts others to pursue a better world together.
  

Additional Points:

• Unity of action is not about uniformity but individuals working together while respecting diversity.
• Achieving true unity requires continuous effort, forgiveness, and a willingness to learn from each other.
• Small acts of unity in daily life can contribute to the broader vision of a united world.
  

By reflecting on these characteristics and consequences and putting them into practice in our lives and communities, we can contribute to the transformative power of unity of action, fulfilling ‘Abdu’l-Bahá’s vision of a world united in love and service.

It’s important to remember that interpretations of these passages and approaches to unity of action can vary within the Bahá’í community. Ultimately, the goal is to work towards a more harmonious and just world where everyone feels valued and respected, contributing to the collective good.

1. ’Abdu’l-Bahá. Selections from the Writings of ʻAbduʼl-Bahá. Translated by Marzieh Gail. Reprint. Wilmette, Illinois: Bahá’í Publishing Trust, 1996, 260-261. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/abdul-baha/selections-writings-abdul-baha/9#762550727. ↩
2. ’Abdu’l-Bahá. The Promulgation of Universal Peace: Talks Delivered by ʻAbduʼl-Bahá during His Visit to the United States and Canada in 1912. Edited by Howard MacNutt. 2nd ed. Wilmette, Ill: Baháʼí Publishing Trust, 1982, 156. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/abdul-baha/promulgation-universal-peace/12#115495925. ↩
3. Ruhi Institute. Arising to Serve. 2.1.1.PE September 2020. Vol. Book 2. 6 vols. Embarking on a Path of Service. Cali, Columbia: Ruhi Foundation, 2020, 51. https://www.ruhi.org/en/walking-a-path-of-service/#AS. ↩

Jalál, 11 Mulk (Dominion), 180 B.E.

Arising to Serve

Quote for Reflection:

In all things it is necessary to consult. This matter should be forcibly stressed by thee, so that consultation may be observed by all. The intent of what hath been revealed from the Pen of the Most High is that consultation may be fully carried out among the friends, inasmuch as it is and will always be a cause of awareness and of awakening and a source of good and well-being. — Bahá’u’lláh ¹

THE prime requisites for them that take counsel together are purity of motive, radiance of spirit, detachment from all else save God, attraction to His Divine Fragrances, humility and lowliness amongst His loved ones, patience and long-suffering in difficulties and servitude to His exalted Threshold. Should they be graciously aided to acquire these attributes, victory from the unseen Kingdom of Bahá shall be vouchsafed to them. — ‘Abdu’l-Bahá ²

Question for Consideration:

What is the significance of consultation, and how should those who take such counsel together conduct themselves? ³

Google Gemini Response:

In the passages you shared, both Bahá’u’lláh and ‘Abdu’l-Bahá emphasize the critical importance of consultation in the Bahá’í community. Here’s how they explain its significance and the core principles for conducting fruitful consultations:

Significance of Consultation:

• Decision-making : It is the preferred method for making decisions at all levels of the Bahá’í community, seen as more just and effective than individual decisions.
• Awareness and awakening : Engaging in open and respectful dialogue leads to deeper understanding, new perspectives, and collective wisdom.
• Source of good and well-being : Consultation promotes unity, avoids personal agendas, and leads to decisions reflecting the best interests of everyone.
  

Principles for Conducting Consultation:

• Purity of Motive : Participants should strive for sincerity, seeking truth and the collective good, not personal gain.
• Radiance of Spirit : Bringing positive energy and an optimistic outlook fosters a constructive atmosphere.
• Detachment from worldly concerns : Focusing on spiritual principles and God’s will helps overcome personal biases.
• Attraction to God’s Fragrances : Seek guidance and inspiration from God and Bahá’í teachings.
• Humility and Lowliness : Recognizing everyone’s contributions and avoiding dominance or arrogance encourages open sharing.
• Patience and Long-suffering : Allow different perspectives to be heard and respectfully address opposing views.
• Servitude to God : Remember that serving the community’s well-being is the ultimate goal.
  

Additional Points:

• Equal participation: Everyone should be able to voice their opinions and be heard respectfully.
• Active listening: Listen attentively to understand others’ perspectives without interrupting.
• Seek common ground: Build upon shared values and goals to find solutions acceptable to all.
• Openness to guidance: Consider relevant quotes from Bahá’í scriptures and seek spiritual guidance.
• Respectful decision-making: Decisions should be reached through consensus, not by majority vote.
• Unity and acceptance: Even after making a decision, maintain unity and respect for differing views.
  

Consultations are central to the Bahá’í vision of a cooperative and harmonious community. By upholding these principles and actively engaging in respectful dialogue, you can contribute to making collective decisions that reflect the highest ideals and benefit the community.

Remember, interpretations of these passages and approaches to consultation can vary within the Bahá’í community. Ultimately, the goal is to foster a process that strengthens unity, reflects spiritual principles, and leads to decisions that serve the well-being of all.

Microsoft Copilot Response:

Consultation holds immense significance in various aspects of life, whether personal, social, or spiritual. Let’s explore its importance and the conduct expected of those who engage in it:

Purpose and Significance of Consultation:

• Unity and Harmony:: Consultation fosters unity and harmony among participants. When people come together to discuss matters, they contribute their diverse perspectives, leading to better decisions.
• Collective Wisdom: Consultation taps into collective wisdom by pooling insights and experiences. It allows for creative solutions that may not emerge from individual thinking.
• Spiritual Growth: Bahá’u’lláh emphasizes that consultation is a divine command. It promotes awareness, awakening, and well-being. It aligns with spiritual growth and draws us closer to God.
• Conflict Resolution: Through open dialogue, consultation resolves conflicts, prevents misunderstandings and promotes understanding.
  

Attributes of Those Engaged in Consultation

• Purity of Motive: Participants should approach consultation sincerely and selflessly. Their intentions should be pure, seeking the best outcome for all.
• Radiance of Spirit: A positive and uplifting spirit enhances the quality of consultation. Avoid negativity or ego-driven attitudes.
• Detachment from All Else Save God: Detach from personal biases, attachments, and preferences. Focus on divine guidance and the greater good.
• Attraction to Divine Fragrances: Seek inspiration from spiritual sources. Let love, compassion, and justice guide your discussions.
• Humility and Lowliness: Be humble and receptive. Acknowledge that others’ insights are valuable. Avoid arrogance or self-righteousness.
• Patience and Long-Suffering: Consultation may involve challenges. Patience and endurance are essential. Avoid impatience or hasty judgments.
• Servitude to His Exalted Threshold: Approach consultation as an act of service to God. Serve the collective purpose rather than personal interests.
  

Conduct During Consultation

• Active Listening: Listen attentively to others’ viewpoints. Show respect and empathy.
• Speak Thoughtfully: Express your thoughts clearly and respectfully. Avoid dominating the conversation.
• Avoid Prejudice: Base decisions on merit, not personal biases.
• Seek Consensus: Strive for agreement. If consensus isn’t possible, accept majority decisions gracefully.
• Pray for Guidance: Begin and end consultations with prayer, seeking divine assistance.
  

In summary, consultation is a powerful tool for growth, unity, and effective decision-making. When conducted with purity of heart and adherence to spiritual principles, it becomes a channel for divine blessings and victory from the unseen Kingdom.

1. Bahá’u’lláh. “Consultation: A Compilation.” Translated by Research Department of the Universal House of Justice. Bahá’í Reference Library, November 1990. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/compilations/consultation/2#737437268. ↩
2. ’Abdu’l-Bahá. Selections from the Writings of ʻAbduʼl-Bahá. Translated by Marzieh Gail. Reprint. Wilmette, Illinois: Bahá’í Publishing Trust, 1996, 87. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/abdul-baha/selections-writings-abdul-baha/5#468398405. ↩
3. Ruhi Institute. Arising to Serve. 2.1.1.PE September 2020. Vol. Book 2. 6 vols. Embarking on a Path of Service. Cali, Columbia: Ruhi Foundation, 2020, 51. https://www.ruhi.org/en/walking-a-path-of-service/#AS. ↩

Istiqlál, 10 Mulk (Dominion), 180 B.E.

Arising to Serve

Quote for Reflection:

Rest not, even for an instant, and seek not comfort, even for a moment; rather labour with heart and soul that thou mayest render devoted service to but one amongst the friends and bring happiness and joy to but one luminous heart. This is true bounty, and by it the brow of ‘Abdu’l‑Bahá is illumined. Be thou my partner and associate therein. — ‘Abdu’l‑Bahá ¹

The supreme need of humanity is cooperation and reciprocity. The stronger the ties of fellowship and solidarity amongst men, the greater will be the power of constructiveness and accomplishment in all the planes of human activity. Without cooperation and reciprocal attitude the individual member of human society remains self-centered, uninspired by altruistic purposes, limited and solitary in development like the animal and plant organisms of the lower kingdoms. The lower creatures are not in need of cooperation and reciprocity. A tree can live solitary and alone, but this is impossible for man without retrogression. Therefore, every cooperative attitude and activity of human life is praiseworthy and foreintended by the will of God. — ‘Abdu’l-Bahá ²

Question for Consideration:

How should one behave in response to humanity’s supreme need? ³

Google Gemini Response:

The passages you shared offer powerful guidance on responding to humanity’s supreme need for cooperation and reciprocity. Here are some key takeaways:

Embrace Activism:

• Don’t wait: “Rest not, even for an instant.” Take action and seek opportunities to serve others, even in small ways.
• Seek discomfort: “Seek not comfort, even for a moment.” Be willing to step outside your comfort zone and engage in challenging yet impactful activities.
• Focus on one person: “Render devoted service to but one amongst the friends and bring happiness and joy to but one luminous heart.” Start small and build from there, focusing on making a real difference in the lives of individuals.
  

Cultivate Cooperation and Unity:

• Strengthen fellowship: “The stronger the ties of fellowship and solidarity amongst men, the greater will be the power of constructiveness and accomplishment.” Actively build connections and foster understanding with others.
• Embrace reciprocity: Treat others with kindness and respect, seeking mutually beneficial relationships.
• Be altruistic: Go beyond self-interest and act with the well-being of others in mind.
  

Remember:

• Individual contribution matters: Every act of service, however small, contributes to the larger goal of building a more just and harmonious world.
• Start small and build: Begin with manageable actions and gradually expand your service as you grow in capacity and experience.
• Find your niche: Identify your strengths and interests and use them to serve others meaningfully.
• Seek inspiration and guidance: Connect with like-minded individuals, study inspiring examples of service, and seek spiritual guidance to sustain your efforts.
  

Here are some concrete ways you can respond to humanity’s supreme need:

• Volunteer in your community: Offer your time and skills to organizations working on issues you care about.
• Practice random acts of kindness: Make small gestures of care and compassion towards others, brightening their day and fostering connection.
• Support local businesses and initiatives: Contribute to the well-being of your community by supporting local entrepreneurs and positive social projects.
• Promote understanding and dialogue: Engage in respectful conversations with people from different backgrounds and perspectives, fostering empathy and cooperation.
• Live by example: Be a role model for others daily by demonstrating cooperation, kindness, and service.
  

Remember, the journey towards a more cooperative and united world is a collective effort. By embracing these principles and taking action, you can create a brighter future for all.

It’s important to note that interpretations of these passages and approaches to serving humanity can vary within the Bahá’í community. Ultimately, the goal is actively contributing to building a more just and peaceful world through cooperation, service, and love.

Microsoft Copilot Response:

In response to humanity’s supreme need, we are called upon to embrace cooperation and reciprocity. These principles form the bedrock of progress and unity among people. Let us explore how we can embody these ideals:

1. Service and Devotion: ‘Abdu’l‑Bahá’s words remind us to labor with heart and soul in service to others. By dedicating ourselves to the well-being of our fellow beings, we bring joy and light to their hearts. Each act of kindness contributes to the collective upliftment of humanity.
   
2. Cooperation: The supreme need lies in cooperation—the willingness to work together for common goals. When we collaborate, we amplify our impact. Just as individual cells form tissues and tissues form organs, our collective efforts create a harmonious society.
   
3. Reciprocity: ‘Abdu’l-Bahá emphasizes that without reciprocal attitude, we remain self-centered and limited. Reciprocity means giving and receiving, understanding and empathizing. It’s the golden thread that weaves us into a compassionate fabric.
   
4. Solidarity: The stronger our ties of fellowship and solidarity, the greater our power to build and accomplish. Like a forest where trees support one another, we thrive when we stand together. Solidarity transcends borders, cultures, and backgrounds.
   
5. Altruism: ‘Abdu’l-Bahá’s teachings encourage us to rise above selfishness. Just as a tree cannot live solitary, we, too, need each other. Altruistic acts—small or grand—create ripples of positive change.
   
6. Foreintended by the Will of God: Recognize that our cooperative attitudes and actions align with divine intention. When we serve others, we participate in a cosmic plan that seeks unity, justice, and love.
   

In summary, let us be partners in this noble endeavor. Let our hearts beat in rhythm with humanity’s needs, and may our actions reflect the light that ‘Abdu’l‑Bahá spoke of—a light that brightens the world for all. 🌟

1. Bahá’u’lláh, ’Abdu’l-Bahá, and Shoghi Effendi. “Compilation for the 2018 Counsellors’ Conference.” Bahá’í Reference Library, May 2018.
   https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/compilations/give-me-thy-grace-serve-thy-loved-ones/3#672942878. ↩
2. ’Abdu’l-Bahá. The Promulgation of Universal Peace: Talks Delivered by ʻAbduʼl-Bahá during His Visit to the United States and Canada in 1912. Edited by Howard MacNutt. 2nd ed. Wilmette, Ill: Baháʼí Publishing Trust, 1982, 337–338. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/abdul-baha/promulgation-universal-peace/26#322101001. ↩
3. Ruhi Institute. Arising to Serve. 2.1.1.PE September 2020. Vol. Book 2. 6 vols. Embarking on a Path of Service. Cali, Columbia: Ruhi Foundation, 2020, 51. https://www.ruhi.org/en/walking-a-path-of-service/#AS. ↩

Istijlál, 09 Mulk (Dominion), 180 B.E.

Arising to Serve

Quote for Reflection:

O COMPANION OF MY THRONE! Hear no evil, and see no evil, abase not thyself, neither sigh and weep. Speak no evil, that thou mayest not hear it spoken unto thee, and magnify not the faults of others that thine own faults may not appear great; and wish not the abasement of anyone, that thine own abasement be not exposed. Live then the days of thy life, that are less than a fleeting moment, with thy mind stainless, thy heart unsullied, thy thoughts pure, and thy nature sanctified, so that, free and content, thou mayest put away this mortal frame, and repair unto the mystic paradise and abide in the eternal kingdom forevermore. — Bahá’u’lláh ¹

Question for Consideration:

How should one live the days of one’s physical life? ²

Google Gemini Response:

The passage you shared from Bahá’u’lláh offers guidance on living a meaningful and fulfilling life based on spiritual principles. Here are some key takeaways on how one should live the days of their physical life:

Cultivating Inner Purity:

• “Hear no evil, and see no evil…”: This doesn’t mean shutting yourself off from the world, but choosing not to dwell on negativity or gossip. Focus on the good and positive aspects of life.
• ”…abase not thyself, neither sigh and weep.”: Avoid self-pity and negativity. Embrace resilience, optimism, and gratitude for your blessings.
• “Speak no evil, that thou mayest not hear it spoken unto thee…”: Be mindful of your own words and avoid speaking negatively about others. Treat others with respect and kindness.
• ”…magnify not the faults of others that thine own faults may not appear great…”: Don’t judge or rebuke others. Focus on understanding and improving your character.
• ”…wish not the abasement of anyone, that thine own abasement be not exposed.”: Avoid harboring ill will or wishing harm on others. Practice compassion and forgiveness.
  

Living a Purposeful Life:

• “Live then the days of thy life, that are less than a fleeting moment…”: Value the preciousness of life and make the most of every day.
• ”…with thy mind stainless, thy heart unsullied, thy thoughts pure, and thy nature sanctified…”: Strive for inner peace and spiritual growth. Cultivate qualities like love, kindness, and service to others.
• ”…free and content…”: Find joy and satisfaction in living a life aligned with your values.
• ”…put away this mortal frame, and repair unto the mystic paradise and abide in the eternal kingdom forevermore.”: Embrace the transient nature of physical life and focus on building your spiritual connection with the divine.
  

Remember:

• This is a lifelong journey of self-improvement and spiritual growth.
• Don’t be discouraged by setbacks. Keep striving to live your best life according to these principles.
• Seek guidance from spiritual teachings, prayer, and meditation to support your journey.
  

By incorporating these principles into your daily life, you can cultivate inner peace, contribute positively to the world, and live a life that reflects your true spiritual potential.

It’s important to note that interpretations of this passage and approaches to living a meaningful life can vary within the Bahá’í community. Ultimately, the goal is to follow Bahá’u’lláh’s guidance to live a life of love, service, and spiritual growth, contributing to the betterment of humanity and preparing for a life beyond the physical world.

Microsoft Copilot Response:

The eloquent words of Bahá’u’lláh offer profound guidance on how to live the days of our physical existence. Let us reflect upon these timeless principles:

• “Hear no evil, and see no evil…”
  Guard your senses against negativity. Refrain from listening to harmful words or witnessing harmful actions. Doing so protects your inner peace and maintains a pure heart.
• ”…abase not thyself, neither sigh and weep.”
  Avoid self-deprecation and unnecessary sorrow. Recognize your inherent worth and rise above challenges. Cultivate resilience and hope, for life’s trials are but fleeting moments.
• “Speak no evil…”
  Be mindful of your words. Refrain from gossip, criticism, and harmful speech. Doing so creates a positive environment around you and uplifts others.
• ”…magnify not the faults of others…”
  Instead of focusing on others’ shortcomings, turn your gaze inward. Acknowledge your imperfections and strive for self-improvement. Compassion and understanding lead to unity.
• ”…wish not the abasement of anyone…”
  Celebrate others’ successes and well-being. Jealousy and ill wishes harm your soul. Embrace humility and recognize the interconnectedness of all humanity.
• “Live then the days of thy life…with thy mind stainless, thy heart unsullied, thy thoughts pure, and thy nature sanctified…”
  Cultivate mindfulness, purity, and virtue. Let your thoughts be uplifting, your intentions noble, and your actions aligned with love and service.
• “Put away this mortal frame, and repair unto the mystic paradise…”
  Recognize that life is transient. Cherish each moment, yet detach from the material world. Seek spiritual growth and prepare for the eternal journey beyond this earthly existence.
  

May we live our days with purpose, kindness, and reverence, aspiring to abide in the eternal kingdom forever. 🌟🙏

1. Bahá’u’lláh. The Hidden Words. Translated by Shoghi Effendi. Bahá’í Reference Library. Accessed February 14, 2024. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/bahaullah/hidden-words/3#697759113. ↩
2. Ruhi Institute. Arising to Serve. 2.1.1.PE September 2020. Vol. Book 2. 6 vols. Embarking on a Path of Service. Cali, Columbia: Ruhi Foundation, 2020, 50. https://www.ruhi.org/en/walking-a-path-of-service/#AS. ↩

’Idál, 08 Mulk (Dominion), 180 B.E.

Arising to Serve

Quote for Reflection:

O beloved of the Lord! If any soul speak ill of an absent one, the only result will clearly be this: he will dampen the zeal of the friends and tend to make them indifferent. For backbiting is divisive, it is the leading cause among the friends of a disposition to withdraw. If any individual should speak ill of one who is absent, it is incumbent on his hearers, in a spiritual and friendly manner, to stop him, and say in effect: would this detraction serve any useful purpose? Would it please the Blessed Beauty, contribute to the lasting honor of the friends, promote the holy Faith, support the Covenant, or be of any possible benefit to any soul? No, never! On the contrary, it would make the dust to settle so thickly on the heart that the ears would hear no more, and the eyes would no longer behold the light of truth.

If, however, a person setteth about speaking well of another, opening his lips to praise another, he will touch an answering chord in his hearers and they will be stirred up by the breathings of God. Their hearts and souls will rejoice to know that, God be thanked, here is a soul in the Faith who is a focus of human perfections, a very embodiment of the bounties of the Lord, one whose tongue is eloquent, and whose face shineth, in whatever gathering he may be, one who hath victory upon his brow, and who is a being sustained by the sweet savors of God. — ‘Abdu’l-Bahá ¹

Question for Consideration:

What is the spiritual discipline required to overlook the faults of others and overcome the inclination to backbite? ²

Google Gemini Response:

The passage by ‘Abdu’l-Bahá highlights the harmful nature of backbiting and the importance of cultivating a spirit of forgiveness and appreciation. It suggests several spiritual disciplines that can help overcome this inclination and foster unity within a community:

• Awareness and Reflection: Recognizing the detrimental effects of backbiting on individuals and the community is crucial. Reflect on how it dampens zeal, creates division, and hinders spiritual progress. This awareness can act as a deterrent when the urge to gossip arises.
• Active Resistance: Don’t be a passive listener when you hear someone backbiting. Gently and respectfully intervene by questioning the purpose and consequences of their words. Ask if it genuinely serves the good of the individual, the community, or the Faith. This can encourage introspection and redirect the conversation towards a more constructive path.
• Cultivating Humility: Recognizing that everyone has imperfections, including yourself, fosters a more forgiving and understanding attitude. Remember that judging others reflects your inner state, and seeking to improve yourself is more productive than criticizing others.
• Focusing on the Positive: Instead of dwelling on the shortcomings of others, actively seek opportunities to appreciate their good qualities and contributions. This shift in focus promotes a more positive and uplifting atmosphere within the community.
• Prayer and Meditation: Regularly engaging in prayer and meditation can cultivate inner peace, compassion, and the strength to resist negative impulses. Seeking connection with the divine can remind you of the importance of unity and love.
• Service and Fellowship: Engaging in acts of service and fellowship with others strengthens bonds and fosters a sense of shared purpose. Working together towards a common goal encourages understanding and appreciation for diverse perspectives.
• Seeking Guidance: If you struggle with backbiting, seek guidance from trusted individuals, spiritual advisors, or community leaders. They can offer support, encouragement, and practical advice to help you overcome this habit and embrace a more loving and forgiving approach.
  

Remember, overcoming negative tendencies is a continuous process that requires commitment and effort. Incorporating these spiritual disciplines into your daily life can cultivate a more positive and united community, fostering a space where love, understanding, and appreciation for each other’s strengths can flourish.

Microsoft Copilot Response:

In pursuing spiritual growth, overlooking the faults of others and resisting the inclination to backbite are essential disciplines. Here are some insights from the Baha’i teachings that can guide us in this endeavor:

Self-Reflection and Imperfection Awareness

• ‘Abdu’l-Bahá encourages us to search out our own imperfections rather than focusing on the flaws of others. By recognizing our shortcomings, we become more compassionate and understanding toward others.
• When we realize we are imperfect, extending grace and forgiveness to those around us becomes easier.
  

Avoid Magnifying Others’ Faults

• Baha’u’llah wisely advises us: “Magnify not the faults of others that thine own faults may not appear great.” Instead of dwelling on the negative aspects of someone’s character, we should strive to see the good within them.
• Remember that everyone is a complex mix of light and dark, and our task is to focus on the positive qualities.
  

Shift Focus to the Good

• Abdu’l-Bahá provides a practical approach: “If a man has ten good qualities and one bad one, look at the ten and forget the one.” Similarly, if someone has ten negative traits and one positive quality, focus on the positive aspect.
• Cultivate a mindset that emphasizes the virtues and strengths in others.
  

Sin-Covering Eyes and Positive Thinking:

• To truly love others, we need sin-covering eyes. Instead of fixating on faults, consciously choose to see the good.
• Positive thoughts can overcome negative ones. When thoughts of criticism arise, replace them with thoughts of love, peace, and understanding.
  

Practice Gratitude and Uplifting Energy:

• Fill your attention with positive perceptions. Express gratitude for the qualities you admire in others.
• As Abdu’l-Bahá advises: “When a thought of war comes, oppose it by a stronger thought of peace. A thought of hatred must be destroyed by a more powerful thought of love.“
  

Remember that overlooking faults doesn’t mean ignoring harmful behavior or injustice. It means approaching others with compassion, seeking to uplift, and recognizing that we all have room for growth. Practicing these spiritual disciplines contributes to a more harmonious and loving world. 🌟🙏

Source: Conversation with Bing, 2/13/2024

(1) How to Stop Focusing on Other People’s Faults

(2) The most overlooked spiritual discipline—Part 1 – Ministry

(3) 8 Spiritual Disciplines: What Are They & Why Are They Important??

1. ’Abdu’l-Bahá. Selections from the Writings of ʻAbduʼl-Bahá. Translated by Marzieh Gail. Reprint. Wilmette, Illinois: Bahá’í Publishing Trust, 1996, 230-231. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/abdul-baha/selections-writings-abdul-baha/8#181765648. ↩
2. Ruhi Institute. Arising to Serve. 2.1.1.PE September 2020. Vol. Book 2. 6 vols. Embarking on a Path of Service. Cali, Columbia: Ruhi Foundation, 2020, 50. https://www.ruhi.org/en/walking-a-path-of-service/#AS. ↩

Fidál, 07 Mulk (Dominion), 180 B.E.

Arising to Serve

Quote for Reflection:

IT is Our wish and desire that every one of you may become a source of all goodness unto men, and an example of uprightness to mankind. Beware lest ye prefer yourselves above your neighbors. Fix your gaze upon Him Who is the Temple of God amongst men. He, in truth, hath offered up His life as a ransom for the redemption of the world. He, verily, is the All-Bountiful, the Gracious, the Most High. If any differences arise amongst you, behold Me standing before your face, and overlook the faults of one another for My name’s sake and as a token of your love for My manifest and resplendent Cause. We love to see you at all times consorting in amity and concord within the paradise of My good-pleasure, and to inhale from your acts the fragrance of friendliness and unity, of loving-kindness and fellowship. Thus counseleth you the All-Knowing, the Faithful. We shall always be with you; if We inhale the perfume of your fellowship, Our heart will assuredly rejoice, for naught else can satisfy Us. To this beareth witness every man of true understanding. — Bahá’u’lláh ¹

Question for Consideration:

What should we do when we feel our passions overtaking us and find ourselves in conflict with others? ²

Google Gemini Response:

The passage you shared from Bahá’u’lláh addresses the situation you describe – when passions rise and conflict threatens. Here are some key takeaways on how to navigate such moments:

• Remember the Ideal: First, recall Bahá’u’lláh’s wish for you to become “a source of all goodness” and “an example of uprightness.” This means striving for humility, forgiveness, and unity, even when challenged.
• Reflect on the Sacrifices: Consider the example of Bahá’u’lláh, who “offered up His life” for humanity. This reminds you to put the needs of others above personal pride or anger.
• Invoke Forgiveness: When differences arise, imagine Bahá’u’lláh present and asking you to “overlook the faults of one another.” Choose forgiveness and understanding over resentment and blame.
• Seek Harmony: Aim for “amity and concord within the paradise of My good-pleasure.” Picture a peaceful, fragrant garden of unity and loving-kindness, and strive to contribute to that atmosphere.
• Prioritize Fellowship: Remember the joy Bahá’u’lláh finds in “the perfume of your fellowship.” Choose connection and understanding over the satisfaction of proving yourself right or indulging in anger.
• Seek Additional Guidance: When grappling with strong emotions, consult with “a man of true understanding.” This could be a spiritual advisor, counselor, or someone respected for their wisdom and calm demeanor.
  

Here are some additional tips for when passions rise:

• Take a step back: Pause before reacting. Breathe deeply and allow time to calm down before engaging in the situation.
• Consider the bigger picture: Consider long-term consequences of your actions. Will anger or conflict serve the greater good?
• Emphasize communication: Express your feelings and needs assertively but respectfully. Listen actively to the other person’s perspective.
• Seek common ground: Look for areas of agreement, even if minor. Build upon those to find solutions acceptable to both parties.
• Practice empathy: Try to understand where the other person is coming from and what might be driving their behavior.
• Remember, communication is an ongoing process: Be patient and willing to revisit the issue later if needed.
  

By remembering these principles and actively cultivating a peaceful resolution, you can navigate challenging situations with grace and contribute to a more harmonious community.

Microsoft Copilot Response:

When passions surge, and conflicts arise, look within. Reflect on the words of Bahá’u’lláh, the Manifestation of God, who counsels us to be sources of goodness and exemplars of uprightness. Here are some steps to consider:

• Self-Awareness: Acknowledge your emotions and recognize when passions are overpowering reason. Understand that everyone experiences inner struggles.
• Pause and Breathe: When conflict emerges, take a moment to pause. Breathe deeply and allow yourself to regain composure.
• Empathy: Put yourself in the other person’s shoes. Seek to understand their perspective, feelings, and needs. Compassion bridges gaps.
• Listen Actively: Engage in active listening. Hear not only the words spoken but also the emotions behind them. Validate their feelings.
• Choose Love: Prioritize love over ego. Remember Bahá’u’lláh’s counsel to overlook faults for unity and the greater good.
• Seek Common Ground: Focus on shared values and common goals. Find areas of agreement and build upon them.
• Humility: Recognize that no one has all the answers. Be open to learning and growth. Humility fosters understanding.
• Communication: Express your feelings calmly and respectfully. Use “I” statements to avoid blame. Seek solutions together.
• Forgiveness: Forgive yourself and others. Holding grudges only perpetuates conflict. Release negativity and embrace healing.
• Prayer and Meditation: Turn to prayer or meditation. Seek guidance from the Divine. Inner peace radiates outward.
  

Remember, we are all travelers on this earthly journey. Let kindness, understanding, and unity guide our steps. 🌟

1. Bahá’u’lláh. Gleanings from the Writings of Bahá’u’lláh. Translated by Shoghi Effendi. Bahá’í Reference Library. Accessed February 12, 2024. https://www.bahai.org/library/authoritative-texts/bahaullah/gleanings-writings-bahaullah/7#576176748. ↩
2. Ruhi Institute. Arising to Serve. 2.1.1.PE September 2020. Vol. Book 2. 6 vols. Embarking on a Path of Service. Cali, Columbia: Ruhi Foundation, 2020, 50. https://www.ruhi.org/en/walking-a-path-of-service/#AS. ↩